I used to be the girl that would only carry oversized bags, because of my size.
Kind of like not wanting to take a picture next to your petite, small friend for fear you will look like King Kong standing next to her.
(Love you Rae!) Then I came to the realization that my size is my size, you accept it and are open to the possibility of all things (big and small) fabulous.
Don't get me wrong, I still love a huge bag, but I have my fair share of small ones. Extensive traveling and the need to be hands-free was a huge help in learning to love small bags.
I found this top and my only wish is that I wasn't for a person who is half my size. Surprisingly, it worked. I ordered a 3X in the top. It turned out super cute. This was categorized as a dress, but to me it was a top perfect for my casual days.